转贴：论古今合婚
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 31.15pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22.65pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: none" align=center>论古今合婚<SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 15.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ee11ee"><SPAN style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #99ff00">法 </SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 31.15pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 22.65pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: none" align=center><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 15.5pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 10.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><SPAN style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ee11ee"><SPAN style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #99ff00"></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN> </P>
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<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 31.15pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 18.7pt; mso-pagination: none"><FONT size=3><FONT color=#000000><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">自古以来</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">婚姻是乃是人生大事，而且在古代礼教甚严，女子有三从四德之教条，其中有出嫁从夫之严律，也就是俗话说的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>:</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">嫁鸡随鸡，嫁狗随狗，嫁个猴子满山跑．此话足以道出女人的命运是不由自己操纵的．所以古代女人择偶是一种人生的赌博</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">故世人又有</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>:</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">＂男怕入错行，女怕嫁错郎＂</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>(</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">入错行者是选择错误的终身职业</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>)</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">的感慨．旧时的婚姻由不得女人作主，一切是听从媒妁之言</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">父母之命</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这种盲婚哑嫁便使人把幸福寄托于命运的安排的宿命论</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">合婚一说就由此而生．</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 31.15pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 18.7pt; mso-pagination: none"><FONT size=3><FONT color=#000000><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">关于合婚有多种操作方法，但比较有影响和深入人心的是吕才合婚法，又称三元合婚法，宫度合婚法，太常斗临经合婚法等名目，让人眼花燎乱，标新立异的结果无非是哗众取宠而已．吕才合婚法最早记载在唐朝的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><<</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">灭蛮经</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>>></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，其后明朝万历年间的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><<</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">金光斗临经</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>>>,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">清代一些有名的择日书也沿用记载这种方法</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">如康熙年间编著的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><<</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">陈子性藏书</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>>>,<<</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">协纪辩方</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>>></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，民国的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><<</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">真本金吊桶</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>>></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">也有八宅合婚记载，近代五术大师吴师青在其所著的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><<</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">楼宇宝监</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>>></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">中又推崇这种方法</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">使吕才合婚法深入人心．</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 31.15pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 18.7pt; mso-pagination: none"><FONT size=3><FONT color=#000000><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">其实在先秦时代，聘娶婚已经开始流行，为必经法度</SPAN> <SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，但当时方法很简单，只利用龟甲或兽骨烧灼后出现的裂纹进行占卜婚姻的吉凶，以作合婚之用</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这是最早的合婚方法．也就是说</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">吕才合婚法是在唐代才出现的．关于</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US><<</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">吕才合婚法</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>>></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">的来历有一段民间传说呢．</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 31.15pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 18.7pt; mso-pagination: none"><FONT size=3><FONT color=#000000><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">唐代初年，北方的突厥趁唐朝初建，立足未稳，便先后扶植割据分裂势力与中央对抗，同时不断内侵，掠夺粮食人口，给中原人民带来很大灾难。贪图安逸的唐高祖不想再打仗了，便派人向突厥求和。答应将百花公主嫁给突厥可汗，双方签署了誓书。对于这种不平等的政治联姻，秦王李世民坚决反对，但父皇已经做了</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">朕躬独断</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，况且有白纸黑字的盟誓为证，如果从唐朝这一方反悔，岂不又给突厥增加了一个再次发动侵扰战争的借口？</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 31.15pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 18.7pt; mso-pagination: none"><FONT size=3><FONT color=#000000><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">李世民百思不得良策，便把他的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">十八学士</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">之一</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>——</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">弘文馆直学士吕才找来商议。吕才说：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这事好办，我让他们承担毁约的罪名。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">精通阴阳五行之学的吕才回家后，假托古人撰述，编造了一部专论男女结婚宜、忌之事的《婚元》，运用阴阳五行、属相八字等知识，故弄玄虚，分列宜忌，什么命相相配</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">子孙满堂</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，什么八字组合</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">夫死妻孤</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，什么生肖搭配</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">生得男女多病死</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，或冲撞某某神煞，等等。最关键的是针对突厥可汗与百花公主的具体情况，虚设了许多障碍，又是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">克夫</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，又是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">绝房</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，又是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">煞神相犯</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，都巧妙地塞进形形色色的组合举例中。</SPAN> </FONT></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 31.15pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 18.7pt; mso-pagination: none"><FONT size=3><FONT color=#000000><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不久，突厥可汗的叔叔亲自率领迎亲使团来到了长安，被唐朝政府安排在迎宾馆内住宿。当晚。突厥亲王在馆舍的庭院内浏览，忽见远处隐隐约约有光亮闪烁，走近去一看，原来光亮是从一棵槐树下发出的。亲王啧啧称奇，忙令随行者在树下挖掘，很快便挖出一个用绫缎包裹的锦匣，打开一看．原来是一部写在帛上的书稿，遂带回房中，命随团来京的通事阅读讲解。这真叫</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">不懂不知道，懂了吓一跳</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">，原来按古书上所讲，可汗与公主的婚姻．处处是五行相克、八字相犯，非但有家破人亡之祸，连可汗的家族也得跟着遭殃。</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 31.15pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 18.7pt; mso-pagination: none"><FONT size=3><FONT color=#000000><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">这门婚事只得告吹了。突厥亲王马上以突犯急病为辞，连夜带着使团离开长安，为使唐皇明白究竟，还特意把那部出土</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">古书</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">留在馆舍里。回去后，亲王将此奇遇向可汗一汇报，可汗大怒，认为这是唐朝故意借联姻陷害自己，幸亏上天相助，使古书出现，遂宣布对唐绝交并发兵攻略泾渭。岂知李世民早有准备，在渭滨设下伏兵，给南犯的突厥来了个迎头痛击。等李世民登基做皇帝后，唐朝对突厥的战略也由防御转为反击．最终生擒突厥可汗。从此，从阴山到大漠都归属了大唐王朝。</SPAN></FONT></FONT></P>
<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LAYOUT-GRID-MODE: char; TEXT-INDENT: 31.15pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 18.7pt; mso-pagination: none"><FONT size=3><FONT color=#000000><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">突厥可汗分裂国家的阴谋破产了，吕才被李世民提拔为太<?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:PersonName ProductID="常" w:st="on">常</st1:PersonName>博士，专职主持整理秦汉以来阴阳学家典籍。那部故意编造的《婚元》也不知怎么搞的．被传到民间，辗转传抄，竟成</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">秘笈</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">。缺乏科学知识的芸芸众生，谁不追求夫妻和睦、子孙满堂的世俗理想，谁不害怕夭折鳏寡、疾病贫穷的悲惨境遇？</SPAN></FONT></FONT><SPAN lang=EN-US><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p><FONT color=#000000 size=3> </FONT></o:p></SPAN></P> 还有个图表无法上传，真纳闷！ 统计二十二对男女：上婚:10对中婚:8对 下婚4对
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